Views From Niagara Falls

Over MLK weekend I finally checked another destination on my travel bucket list. I took a lovely adventure to Niagara Falls, NY and Niagara Falls, Canada with my dad for his birthday. Well I invited myself, because he planned a solo trip. My Dad was not about to be going somewhere I’ve been wanting to go. It was the most memorizing scenery and the coldest weather I have ever experienced. Freezing my tail off was worth it all in the end!

I was so happy that I didn’t spend a lot of money on gear for the trip. Luckily, I had my snow clothes from my trip to Lake Tahoe last year and they were still in good condition. Dick’s Sporting Goods had the majority of my necessities. There was a specific look I was going for and they came through. Walmart and Shoe Palace held it down too. From Dick’s, I got some snow overalls. My short petite self can fit in the kid’s section so I bought a Large and was in the game. It fit so cute! I was so excited that my look was already coming together. That was the main ingredient. It was only $39.99 ! I’m always looking for a bargain and that was the jackpot ! I spent more on accessories. I purchased a beanie, scarf and scarf. It came out to be more than my snow suit. I bought a pair of Adidas from Shoe Palace and thermal shirts from Walmart in the men’s section. They never have what I want or need in the girl’s or women’s section. The goal was to not spend over $200 and I achieved that.

I flew out of Oakland to Buffalo and met my dad at the airport.

That town is so small. There is nothing out there but Niagara Falls and the Niagara University. The first day we checked in and the concierge hooked us up! I was so happy a black man was there holding it down. He gave us 2 breakfast tickets (one complimentary) and 5 drink tickets (2 complimentary). I started calling him fam. My dad and I had the biggest smile on our face. Like yasssss ! This is a welcome. His hospitality was great ! It set the tone for the remainder of the trip. We checked in our rooms and cleaned up for dinner. There was a Fridays in our hotel so that that was convenient for us to eat. After dinner we went back to our rooms and rested for a second and took a night walk in the snow. It was so freaking cold !!!! We had to test out the night time ready to see what we were getting into and if our clothes were good to go. “We was in the game ! ” as my dad would say. Everything worked out perfect.

We woke up for breakfast the next morning and ate the buffet at Fridays. They had everything you could possibly think of. Some things were a little to salty for me to handle. I’ve been trying to cut back and I’ve been using organic unsalted seasoning on my food for a while. So when I tasted the sausages and potatoes I almost died. It was so salty. My dad doesn’t eat salt either so I had to warn him before he dived it. After breakfast we let our food digest and got dressed to make our way to the USA side of Niagara Falls.

Our hotel was right around the corner from the falls. It was a 7 minute walk around the corner. We were so happy about it too. The view was so pretty. From all different angles and locations that you could see it from. I took a picture everywhere. Looking like real life tourists and I did not care. It was so breath taking. So much snow yet so much water flowing. My dad and I walked around the park taking pictures from all of the attractions. You really risked getting frost bite taking pictures though and people did not care. You had to get that shot. We then hit the gift shop for souvenirs. We take souvenirs so seriously. You have to get all the trinkets, it’s the law for travel. We rested for about 2 hours and took a cab to this historical power plant that my dad really wanted to see. It was pretty cool. I love any opportunity to learn. For dinner we ordered pizza and rested for the next day in Canada.

It was our last day and finally I was able to stand in Canadian soil. I picked a few attractions that I wanted to do and pretty much planned the itinerary. We drove across Rainbow Bridge and entered Canada. I saw the Canadian flag and “Welcome to Ontario” sign and was juiced. The first stop was at the Niagara Sky Wheel. It’s a ferris wheel and from it you can see the falls. The views were crazy ! I couldn’t believe my eyes ! It was an 11 minute ride so you can view the falls from many angles. Definitely one of the best sights I’ve ever seen.

I wanted to check out how Canadian shopping was so we arranged a trip to an outlet about 20 minutes from the Sky Wheel. They had the majority of the same stores we did but I was in Canada so it was a big deal LOL. My dad bought me a few things from Forever 21 and we strolled for about 20 more minutes until our cab came back.

Dinner was next on our agenda at the Skylon Tower.It was a tower that spins around very slowly and you get views of the falls and the rest of the city life.

The restaurant was very nice and dinner tasted flavorful. My dad and I both ate a delicious salmon with rice and veggies. After dinner we went to the observatory and took pictures with the view in the background.

It was worth every cold bone in my body ! Glad I can finally cross Niagara Falls off of my bucket list. Now to plan an entire Canadian vacation is next up 🙂

2k17 Beautiful Beginnings

Hello beautiful Souls!

Happy New Year!!!

It has been a very long time since I have blogged. Please excuse my absence. But I have been busy out of this world, since like Thanksgiving Break LOL. The holidays were awesome sauce. Saw my family and spent time in the 909 then flew right back to the Bay for New Years to be with my love. Those two weeks were much needed. I was able to relax, work on my businesses, have some fun, and of course lose a lot of sleep. (Thanks Josiah Turtle)  It always happens. I’m used to it now. Now I am settled back into work, and it’s hella busy. Surprisingly, I haven’t been complaining about my job. Go me !! Progress ya’ll. PROGRESS! 2k17 has been looking up already.

What I have really been up to these days is working on my businesses. I know I say that a lot but that is what I really do when I have down time. I make sure that when I come home from work I spend an hour or more on one of my businesses. Whether that’s doing research, writing a lesson plan, organizing my ideas for a product, etc. I make sure I make time throughout the week to make my dreams come true. Plus I have too many ideas not to work on something. I have so many things in the works! Many people are asking me what’s up with my online store. To be honest, The I.M.A.N.I. Project has been taking off. A lot of organization, getting new clients, trying to promote, and so much more… I have been doing small pop up shops for my friends. Slowly but surely I am revamping Eccentric Vibes so I want it to be how I want it, on my own time. The entire idea behind it was for me to create clothes that I want to wear. I just so happen to sell some of my items in the process. Because people ask me how and when do I shop. It’s hard to explain so I sell clothes that are a reflection of my style. Be patient COOL KIDS, I have some dope stuff coming.

I want to have a social life again. I am such a workaholic, I skip out on fun. There have been a few times I have went out on my break and I enjoyed myself. I just like to get dressed and be around great vibes.  Clubbing isn’t really my thing anymore. I am totally over it. But I do like to attend events. My email is full of invites to all different types of parties, movie showings, art galleries, etc. I never have no one to go with. I know I say I like to rock solo, which I do because I hate waiting on people to make a decision on if they want to join me on my adventures or not. But I wouldn’t mind an amiga to join me once in a while. I have met some new people that I have been getting to know. We have made plans to hang out and I am so excited about that. They are in the same predicament I am in. They want to go to different types of events but they have any one to go with. So we are looking into outings to make an appearance at. Can’t wait to vibe out!

So far 2k17 has been going good. I am learning to be more patient and remain calm in situations. By doing so, my anxiety has been nonexistent. (whoop whoop !) These are some of my goals for the New Year. I hope that my readers have set some for themselves 🙂

Start my own dance classes (New Contract at Green Leaf K-8 !)

New clients for the I.M.A.N.I. Project

Re-launch Eccentric Vibes

Travel to the East Coast

Go to open mic nights, art shows, concerts, plays

Host my own event

Take my students on a field trip

Start saving money again

Read more books

Community Service

Start looking into getting an office

Start looking into moving into a new place

Cook for Kris (I don’t cook for the master chef. I supply food lol)

Go on more hikes

Try not to be on social media so much

Drink more water

Ride my bike

Be more organized

Take a fitness class

Not complain about work

Be optimistic and spontaneous (I’m young still man. Just figuring out life)

If I knock out a few of these, that’s great progress. I’m just happy to be alive, doing what I love, and want the people who support me to stay around. This year is all about organization, all money in, and having fun. Now Let’s Get It!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

End of Summer Blues

I usually feel so ready for the new school year (work) to begin. Literally, I can only handle one month of summer and then I am completely over it. But this year… I’m not feeling it. Back to school can kiss my butt.

I thought I would be in such a liberated space, ready to advocate for new kids, put on new programs…doing what I do and love. But nahh. That is not the case this time around. My summer was fun and very productive and I was anxious to get back to work. But the hours, pay, and the the extras that come with the job is not okay. So here I am applying for jobs AGAIN and working so hard on The I.M.A.N.I. Project. It’s My exact reason for starting my own youth services program. I know my worth. I know how dope of a youth advocate I am. So even though I have to pay these bills to survive in the Bay, I cannot lose sight on the vision. My vision.

Aside from the dreadful thought of going back to work, this summer I have lived and learned. It feels so good to be able to reflect and learn from life lessons and accept that SHIT HAPPENS. What’s important is how you bounce back.I am learning that everyday. With jobs, friends, family, relationships, life itself, in the midst of getting to know myself, putting on that crown and facing each obstacle with grace screams QUEEN. And I shall act as such in the situations I can’t control and even the ones that I can.  But remain positive and optimistic. Even when it seems impossible to do. Gotta let it go and move on.

B/c sometimes I want to just tell people they are crossing the line with certain things. But mama always told me to let somethings go.

I am so proud that I maintained somewhat of a social life. I went on adventures, hung out with my girls, and networked all through the Bay Area. My reasoning for taking off work for the summer was for me to work on my businesses, which I did. But I need a little fun to get my creative juices flowing. And boyyy do I have some dope things in the works.

This summer, I felt that I got to know myself better. I was able to explore different career options, decipher between my strengths and weaknesses as a person, what I want for my future and how to obtain it. As well as connect with my spiritual side. (Yoga & Meditation) Typical mid 20s crisis, but you would be amazed of how many of us think we need to have it together, and we really don’t. I feel like social media is trying to speed up our lives, comparing them to one another. Social media is the new “virtual society.” We, yes WE are living by unwritten rules that people make behind keyboards. Take YOUR Time and do you. It’s okay that I am taking my time to discover new things to see what sticks as well make a few mistakes just to learn from them. It felt good to take the time to do that exploration. I feel that I am a better me.

I really do not want my summer to end and usually I cannot wait until it’s over. But I want to continue to enjoy my days of working on my businesses. Being in charge of my schedule and the tasks I want to complete each day. Having the freedom to do spontaneous things and not have to schedule it around my day job. But although I have the end of summer blues for the first time ever, I am optimistic that I will land something that I love to do and pay my bills, as well as work on both Eccentric Vibes and The I.M.A.N.I. Project.

Clean slate.

I'm starting over. A new pattern of thoughts. A new wave of emotions. A new connection to the world. A new belief system in myself.